For every woman become mom as really good experience and best in their life. And actually my sister recently gave birth to her second child, and it has caused me to think seriously about the ways in which want to raise my children and also the type of child hood that I want them to have actually.

And I have reflected on the philosophies that guide my thinking about the children and  also I have chosen the five quotes that I love which I'm in best define my own personal philosophy and about the teaching and raising children actually.


And I really want to give my children a great deal of unstructured play time all the time, and I mostly with Natural and Open ended Toys and objects from the natural world that may be like sticks and shells and  pebbles and feathers. And Actually the lots of time outside,and climbing up trees and jumping in puddles.
If I had become mom in the future I really want to encourage my children to create and make beautiful things actually by there own and by there nature which they like most and I want to teach them time spent creating is valuable,according to my self.

Picasso said that every child is an artist, but I believe that every person is an artist. Creating and making art is a deep human need, and we all need an outlet. It's how we process the world around us and our own inner life.
And I'm also want to value to my children and their play time also. And I would like to always remember that playing is how children learn. And If children engage in play, they can learn,that what I believed all the time actually.

And really I want to remember learning should feel joyful with them. And also i want to giving my children a steady diet of playful, also joy filled learning experiences will set them up for there lifelong learning and also a love of discovering new things actually.
And the most of your children watch and learn from you, every day, and every moment in your daily life. If they listen to your words, and also imitate your actions,and they always try to  follow your cues on how to behave in new situations, and mimic your example on how to interact with people they meet actually. And they will learn, from you, how to understand disability of yours.
But sadly, the fear of disability is still out there, and also dear parent of a typical child, you can help your child understand first of all and that disability is indeed a normal part of life but you can only teach what you know actually.
And If you are uncomfortable with disability and also pull your children away from other kids with disabilities. And when they are playing together at the park and at a party, or at the library. So you are teaching your kids that children like mine are scary and repulsive and as well as the  people to stay away from mainly.
You know? The disability is not contagious. And don’t let your kids grow up carrying the same stigmas that older generations passed on to you  please first of all. And be brave.And try to make a difference for your child by acknowledging that kids with disabilities are people first and also with gifts and  talents and also by there abilities actually.
And If your child is curious, remember that curiosity is part of healthy development first of all. don't think its wrong about your children. And your children are learning and making the sense of their world actually. So don't take them on action for this problem. But you be ready to respond in a way that helps them understand and also embrace disability, but not run away from it, Ok?
If may be your child asks like, “What’s wrong with him mama?” Say to them, “Nothing is wrong with him. But he has a disability. So do you know what disability means?”
So you have to Perhaps and you can explain disability by talking about apples actually. Apples can be green and red, or speckled they look like to be different, but they are still apples. So you can eat an apple or an apple pie or apple sauce actually. And you can drink apple juice even apple soda also. And it goes without saying that you can eat apple pie. But you cannot drink it at that time. You can drink apple soda, but not eat it actually.
So we are like apples.And we might look a different on the outside. But actually we have the same essence and we are all made in the image of God actually.
You better to teach your children that nobody is defined by their diagnosis first of all.
And teach to them like that children are children first.
And we all have different gifts.
And we all have different talents.
Also we all have different abilities and also the humor.
And also we all have unique personalities actually.
So they are made up of so much more than their diagnosis actually.
So you better to teach them like this.
And the best way to be comfortable with the disability is to be around it first of all. And If you don't have a friend who has a child with special needs, and then make a point to befriend someone from your church  or the parent you see at the park or public library actually. 

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